It’s said that friends are the family we choose, which shows their importance in our lives. From the first buddies we made in infant school, who helped ease us into our independent lives, to the college friends who know too many drunken stories about us, friends are such an integral part of our life experiences that they often know us better than anyone else. As September is the month of friendship, we wanted to find out where the word ‘friend’ originated and to take a look at how important it is for us to nurture our friendships.
In the first evolution of man, friendships were developed for physical survival, offering protection in numbers and bringing together complementary skill sets. This value has evolved in
The word friendship is a variation of the old English freondscipe, meaning ‘mutual liking and regard’. This is a simple and clear description, but it doesn’t even touch on the layers of the meaning of the word.
Friendship comes in so many different forms that it’s difficult to give just one definition, but at its core is a sense of joy to be in each other’s company, and the desire to do things unconditionally for one another. Whether we’re talking about life-long friends we’ve grown up with, work friends who keep us sane under stress, or the parents we’ve met at the school gates, bonding over our messy buns and chaotic mornings, we encounter lots of different friendships throughout our lives. And did you know that it’s been proven that having
A survey of 10,000 people in the UK carried out by Microsoft’s MSN Messenger* found that we have around 400 friends in our lifetime, but only a small number of these will stand the test of time.
Analysis of the research suggests that we have more ‘friends’ than generations before us, which may be due to the fact that we are so much more mobile so are likely to have moved away from our
The survey found that 58% of responders say friends are the most important thing in their lives, above money, career and even family. However, the findings suggest that although we have a greater number of friends as a whole we don’t have any more close friends who we would trust with anything. This number has not changed across the generations and according to research undertaken by
According to this Huffington post feature, friendship originated to aid the survival of primitive man, and now modern man might rely on friendship for ‘survival’ in work, life and love. Although we may not need friends to survive physically anymore, the emotional support that friendship brings can contribute to good mental health.
Thankfully, as a
Research has also proven that the more friends we have, the longer we will live!! Data from the Australian Longitudinal Study of Aging that started in 1992 showed that of the 1,500 people followed over a 10 year period, those with a larger number of friends outlived those with fewer friends. Pretty compelling stuff!! So, get on the phone to your friends and show them a little bit of love because you might have a good few extra years to enjoy just from having them in your lives!
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